May 15
This was the very first time Stuart had to leave the three of us for a trip, and it was for a total of 5 nights. The week actually went through as smoothly as I hoped. My goal each day was to leave work on time and try to keep the kids on schedule as much as possible. We had extended CDC to five days a week in May, so the boys would spend the morning and after school there on Monday and Friday as well. The one thing the boys did enjoy was the fact that I drove them to and from school the entire week; they were happy to get a break from walking. Monday went by quickly and we Skyped with Stuart while we had dinner. Tuesday was the toughest one as Connor’s soccer practice was at 5:30pm, but I managed to leave five minutes to 5:00, and we made to the the field 10 minutes after the practice started. Logan and I did his homework and he played some basketball later while Connor practiced with his team. Then we went for some pizza and I helped Connor with his homework before the food arrived. Wednesday was Logan’s turn to have his basketball practice at 6:00; since it was a bit later, I did not have to rush as much. We went for some Vietnamese dinner afterward and it was Logan’s turn to finish up homework at the restaurant. All three of us were relieved on Thursday that we did not have to go anywhere after school. We ate dinner at home, did homework, and I joined the boys briefly for some basketball in the backyard after I cleaned up. The week was very busy and I was tired by end of the day, but fortunately it went fine. The boys and I were thrilled that it was finally Friday. Stuart left Indianapolis very early in the morning and actually arrived home early so he could unpack. The boys were excited to see Stuart picking them up from CDC, and they were even more pleased when they saw the Panda bears that Stuart got them on his way home.
May 15
Connor received a note from his classmate (”friend”) two days in a roll last week.


May 08
Stuart left at 6am this morning for his business trip, so Mother’s Day was a bonding time for me and the boys. I initially had considered taking them to watch the Jungle Book, after we talked about if it would be too scary. However this morning the boys suggested a change in plan to go play miniature golf instead. We decided to go as soon as the park was open to beat the crowd, and we did it. We were the first group on the course, and we finished the entire course before anyone caught up to us. The boys did great; Connor even out beat Logan in a few holes. Logan did not want to keep score this time, but they tried to argue who the winner was at the end. After mini golf, they were excited to play some arcade games, a mixture of shooting games and air hockey. Next I wanted some French fries, so we had our lunch at In and Out. The two of them were quite into playing with the little sticker activity they were given while they ate.
After a little quiet time and some Monopoly time at home, the boys played video games and I actually caught a quick nap. I convinced them to take a walk later but we ended up at the school playing basketball, Connor and I vs. Logan. Connor is getting better shooting basket and could make several baskets at these higher baskets. I also entertained them by playing Four Squares with them too.
The agreement to change plan this morning was to also include a movie night. I finally found a movie that I was interested and the boys had not seen, Rio. Before we started the movie, we also agreed to let Connor be the teacher and pretend teaching us some facts about animals for awhile. With the movie, the two of them were quite engaged. We took a break to eat dinner while we chatted with Stuart over the phone. We finished up the movie after eating, and we still had some time to play basketball in the backyard. I joined them after I finished cleaning. We then proceeded with shower, story time and bedtime. We had a productive day as we tried to keep ourselves busy while we miss having daddy with us.










May 07
The kindergarten class invited all the mothers today for a small celebration. It was an awkward time for my work, but I made arrangement to attend. Fortunately I did as all the other mothers were present too. As the moms entered the classroom, the teacher had our kids present us a flower, then led us to their seats to put the flowers in their hand-decorated vases. The teacher announced that the kids prepared a short performance for us, and since they were previously practicing for the Spring Concert, they only worked on this for a short time. They sang us three songs and recited three poems, and they did a fine job. After the great entertainment, we returned to the seats with the kids to see some handmade gifts. Connor presented me a Happy Mother’s art work and some written notes to me. The teacher had a couple of 5th grader helpers; they were busy bringing snacks to the moms and the children. After eating, we wrapped up this little celebration. All the moms, including me, really appreciated the effort the teacher and the kids put together for us. I walked out with Connor and the other kids to their recess, and I then returned to work.






A side note, Connor’s little friend came ask to take a picture with Connor.
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