We had my work Christmas party to attend last evening.  We decided to ask the Hashiguchis to look after Logan for us, so we would only have to bring one child to the event.  Stuart dropped Logan off a bit earlier at their house so that he could follow them to the Hashiguchi twin’s dance recital at 5pm.  Even though Logan goes to daycare every weekday, he has hardly been away from us any other time.  The only other occasion was while Connor was being born.  Even though we know that Dee Dee always takes good care of him and the twins adore him, we both felt sad to leave Logan behind and missed him so much.  We were so silly!  We felt much better as Dee Dee sent us photos of him periodically throughout the night. 

   We proceeded to the dinner party.  Since I am still in my maternity leave, it was fun to see and catch up with my coworkers.  Connor behaved quite well; he was being held by different people initially, then slept while we enjoyed the dinner with our friends.  Throughout the evening, we were keeping an eye on the time so that we would not be too late to go pick up Logan.  When we arrived at the Hashiguchi’s, he was just sitting nicely at the table eating a snack.  The first sentence he said to me was that “I want to stay".  It was cute to hear that and it showed how much fun he must have with them.  He did change to “I want to go home” after giving us hugs.  He also gave us so many kisses like we had not seen each other for days.  Of course, Stuart and I were enjoying the affection we received.  We are such needy parents.  Thanks to Dee Dee and Scott for taking great care of Logan for us again!

     Stuart started to suspect that Scottie was losing his hearing.  Scottie used to come straight to the door when Stuart opened it for him, but now Stuart has to walk all the way to Scottie to get his attention.  I immediately made an appointment for him to see the vet today.  Scottie was more timid than usual; he stayed in his carrier the entire time while waiting for his vet.    He looked so sad.  The vet did a physical exam; Scottie appeared fine.  There were no signs of infections or tumors which could also be the causes of hearing loss.  When the vet went around Scottie a few times squeaking a squeaky toy, Scottie did not show any responses at all.  At that point, it really hit me that our cat is getting older and now he has lost his hearing.  I immediately filled with sadness and guilt.  I have been somewhat neglecting Scottie, and we often get mad at him for his loud meow as we worry that he will wake up the kids.  I also have been avoiding holding him so I won’t have to get fur all over me before holding Connor.  The vet tried to calm me by saying that cats are very resilient and will adapt to the change soon.  Besides the hearing loss, Scottie also continues to lose weight; he is now only 8lbs 11oz.  So we did another blood panel today.  Will keep our finger crossed for the results.

     We are still trying to accept this sad news.  We have to try to limit his outing now since he won’t be able to hear approaching cars.  Scottie may not be joining us as much to play as he won’t be finding us by our voices to different rooms of the house or hear that we are in the yard.  We really need to step it up now to give him more TLC. 

My sister Yvonne’s family has decided to move to China for at least a year.  The reason they are doing this is because my brother in law Allen enjoys his new job there and both of them wish to give their kids Katie and Kevin a chance to learn the culture first-hand.  The last couple of months have been hectic for them wrapping up their lives in Florida and the moving date has finally arrived today.  Connor and I were able to meet up with them for a brief visit during their layover at San Francisco Airport.  It was good to say goodbye and wish them well, and for Connor to meet his auntie, uncle and cousins too.  Good Luck and Best Wishes to the Liangs!

     We drove down to southern California for a brief visit during Thanksgiving holiday.  This is our first trip with the two boys.  Our biggest concern was the car ride so I sat between them to keep them entertained.  We drove down on Wednesday and returned on Saturday.  The boys were very cooperative and both had their bowel movements right before both trips (I know, too much information).  An hour into the drive down, Logan threw up his breakfast… most likely because we were playing with the doodle pad too long.  After cleaning up, the trip was uneventful except for the normal/horrible LA traffic at the end.  We made it to the grandparents’ house in 7 hours.  Connor’s favorite toy during the trip was a partially filled water bottle.  The return trip was much worse.  There were a lot of cars on the road the entire way, plus we had a long delay at a lunch stop due to the crowds.  The first half of the trip was fine when both boys were sleeping, but for the second half, Connor had lost his patience, he no longer found the water bottle amusing.  At one point, I tried to give him formula in a bottle to avoid a stop, but he did not like the taste of it at all and got even more mad.  I also got very tired entertaining the boys; fortunately, Logan was relatively content watching his videos.  The drive finally ended after 7.5 long hours

     It was great to see and play with grandparents on the first day we arrived.  Logan warmed up to them quite quickly.  We stayed at the grandparents’ house to play on Thanksgiving day and Julie, Andrew and Jake came join us for the holiday.  We had a wonderful dinner together made by Grandma. Thank you Grandma!  The next day, we all went to Julie and Andrew’s house to hang out.  We also got to see Trevor there too.  We went out for dinner afterward and to see Christmas lights too. 

     Both boys enjoyed the love and attention they received.  Connor loved being held by everyone, and Logan had fun playing with the toys that he was given.  Probably because of the many faces Logan had not seen for awhile and his shyness, Logan became quite moody at times while we were there.  He would not play with cooperatively sometimes and he would get mad easily.  However, the boys did well overnight, Connor woke up one more time more than usual the first two nights, but overall he did well sleeping by himself in the spare room.  Logan got to share a bed with us and he was loving it (actually Stuart and I enjoyed cuddling with him too). 

    One thing Logan learned to love during this trip was playing with Grandma’s computer.  He even called the den “Logan’s room”.  He loved to play on the NickJr website.  He learned to point the cursor with the mouse and used his other hand to do the left click.  He especially liked the Kai Lan’s games.  He got quite good with finding the pandas and helping the ants fix the road. 

    Overall it was a great trip.  It was good to see the grandparents, and for Logan to see his cousins and Uncle and Auntie again, and for Connor to meet them for the first time. 

     I took Connor to his doctor for the 4th month visit today.  Connor was in a good mood, calm and smiley, for the most part.  But he got very upset after the doctor put him down on his tummy to see how he did with tummy time.  He is still not a big fan of tummy time.  It took awhile before I could actually calm him down.  Everything checked out well and he is a big baby as we all know.  The doctor said he is not overweight since he is growing proportionately in all aspects; therefore, no need to put him on a diet ". 

Weight = 18lb 12oz (98 percentile up from 92% two months ago)

Height = 27” (98 percentile up from 93%)

Head circumference = 17.25” (89 percentile up from 65%)

     Connor is much larger and a bit taller than Logan was at this age, and his head is catching up to Logan’s big head too (Logan’s stats = 16lb 2oz, 26.5”, 17.5”).

     After the appointment, we proceeded to get his vaccinations.  Connor was already mad when receiving the oral vaccine, and of course, got even more mad after the three injections.  But for the remainder of the day, Connor was good as usual; he was even quite social while I was having lunch with my coworkers.

It was a rainy day, so we stayed in this afternoon.  Stuart decided that it would be fun to play Wii with Logan again.  This was probably the 4th or 5th time Logan played Wii, and he has been loving it.  There are only a couple of games that Logan can manage to control the Wii stick and play on his own.  He loves the battling one, and he tried the running game today for the first time.  What we were surprised was how fast he picked up things; he was able to move the joystick to aim at the right spot and hit “OK” to start the game on his own today.  He seemed to have good reflexes and could even hit “OK” faster than Stuart did sometimes.  Here are a few clips of his fun today.